Marriage is the source of happiness and stability for man. God Almighty created women to be the sisters of men. A man cannot live without a woman, and a woman cannot live without a man.
As allah said
وَٱللَّهُ جَعَلَ لَكُم مِّنۢ بُيُوتِكُمۡ سَكَنٗا وَجَعَلَ لَكُم مِّن جُلُودِ ٱلۡأَنۡعَٰمِ بُيُوتٗا تَسۡتَخِفُّونَهَا يَوۡمَ ظَعۡنِكُمۡ وَيَوۡمَ إِقَامَتِكُمۡ وَمِنۡ أَصۡوَافِهَا وَأَوۡبَارِهَا وَأَشۡعَارِهَآ أَثَٰثٗا وَمَتَٰعًا إِلَىٰ حِينٖ
And Allah has made for you in your homes an abode, and made for you out of the hides of the cattle (tents for) dwelling, which you find so light (and handy) when you travel and when you stay (in your travels), and of their wool, fur, and hair (sheep wool, camel fur, and goat hair), a furnishing and articles of convenience (e.g. carpets, blankets, etc.),
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The reasons for which God legislated marriage
Immunization of the Muslim person:
Marriage in Islam is based on fulfilling a person’s desires in a way that pleases God Almighty, far from immorality, immorality, adultery That is why the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, explained its importance to young people, saying: (O young people, whoever of you can afford it, let him get married, for it will lower one’s gaze and protect one’s chastity)
Achieving human caliphate on earth
God Almighty created Adam and then made his partner from his rib so that he would have their offspring, and populate the earth. This can only be achieved through marriage.
How can the reproduction of Muslim offspring occur, which will achieve worship of God Almighty, without the existence of an Islamic bond based on marriage between a man and a woman?
obedience to God Almighty and His Messenger
, God Almighty legislated marriage so that obedience to Him and His Prophet would be achieved. God Almighty said:
وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَىٰ فَانْكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُمْ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَىٰ وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ ۖ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا
If you fear you cannot act fairly towards the orphans—then marry the women you like—two, or three, or four. But if you fear you will not be fair, then one, or what you already have. That makes it more likely that you avoid bias.
As for our Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he commanded the women to be with men with good morals and religion, otherwise she is sinning, according to what the prophet said: (If someone comes to you whose religion and character you are satisfied with, then marry him. If you do not, there will be strife and corruption on earth.)
Marriage is a delegated matter
It means that it is a recommended command for the honorable messengers and prophets to do, and for the descendants of the messengers and prophets to carry their ancestor’s legacy, it is necessary to get married. The prophet may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: (Marriage is part of my Sunnah, so whoever does not act according to my Sunnah is not one of my people, and get married; For I will multiply you among the nations.
Provisions of Marriage in Islam
spouses should have healthy and respectful relationships:
Married life is based on the bond of love, intimacy, tranquility, and affection. as allah almighty said:
(وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ)
And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect.
Consultation and cooperation in household responsibilities:
Including raising children, as the Prophet used to say
(The best of you is the best to his family, and I am the best to my family)
Honoring the husband or wife’s family:
Meaning that we raise a slogan that says, “Your family is my family and my family is your family.”
Satisfaction and contentment:
Which means being satisfied with what you have and not focusing on any minor inconvenience and making a big deal out of it.
Strive together to maintain obedience and worship:
According to the words of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace:
(إذا أيقظَ الرَّجلُ أَهلَهُ منَ اللَّيلِ فصلَّيا أو صلَّى رَكعتينِ جميعًا كتبا في الذَّاكرينَ والذَّاكراتِ)
(If a man wakes up his family at night and prays two rak’ahs together, they will be They will be obedient worshipers.
• At the request of many of our students to help them find the other suitable for marriage, we will begin to codify this subject through the marriage form. All written information is strictly confidential and only the relevant employee can see it, so all information must be frank and true.